I’m a student of B.Com IInd Yr and am havin’ a bit of a problem where love’s concerned. I’m in love with two girls and ironically they are both friends and even know of each others feelings for me. The problem however is that I want to settle down with one of the two. At present I devote equal attention to both of them (even go to the movies with both together) but I’ve had enough and hence want to go steady with one. Pl. give me an outline on what character traits I should look out for to help me in my selection process. – STUDBOY.
Well Studboy you seem to have got yourself into quite a jam. First you have to figure out which one of them is genuinely interested in you as a person because it appears that both of them are just interested in you for their own personal gain. It is a common feature among members of both sexes to be interested in ‘going out’, just to be cool and to boost one’s social status. Check if either of them falls in that category. If they do, both of them aren’t really worth it. Anyway it’s all up to you now to determine which one of them you prefer (your gut feeling will help you in that area). Best of Luck.
How can I tell if I guy just wants action instead of a relationship?
For clues to his true intentions, check the clock; The later he wants to meet the more action he wants. Men who care about more than just action are usually up for seeing you during day light. So if he suggests hanging out at the canteen or bowling arcade, chances are that he wants to see how compatible both are and whether there’s potential. A relationship-minded guy will also introduce you to his friends. An up-to-no-good user, however, doesn’t want you near his inner circle, since that makes it harder to break it off when he gets bored.
I am an 18 year old girl madly infatuated with my classmate. I have been trying to hit on him for weeks, I have gone to the extent of directly hinting but for some reason he seems to be as dumb as they come. Everyone is aware of my feelings and tease me in his presence. Should I propose to him or wait for him to show some interest? Please help me as I don’t know what to do. – Xyz.
Well miss Xyz, This guy seems to like attracting attention or may be he just wants to be your friend and is not ready for a relationship. Either way I think you should open up your feelings and let him know that you like him.
I am a very depressed person and I am not at all receptive to anyones thoughts or feelings but I am making an exception this time by writing in. Moreover I am a total introvert and not fond of studying either which leaves me no where. Lately I have developed a crush on a sweet girl and I feel at the moment I am not the right person for her. What should I do? – Abc.
It’s always possible to turn things around and I am sure you can too. Latch on to the hope of your crush and with that in mind think positively, start doing things that interest you. Try expanding your friend circle and put your best foot forward and I am sure that if you bring out the best in you nothing can stop that girl from falling for you.